June 23, 2026 -- Proverbs 12:16 -- What is vexation? How does it affect my faith?
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16 The vexation of a fool is known at once,
but the prudent ignores an insult.
The Holy Bible: English Standard Version
(Wheaton, IL: Crossway Bibles, 2025), Proverbs 12:16.
As an English major, I must confess I love the sound of that word “vexation”. It describes a particular kind of anger a person feels. When a man thinks he is utterly in the right, and someone smashes against his smug pride with clear and honest words vexation describes that self-deceived person’s sputters and rages. He doesn’t take on board the possibility he is wrong; he digs in even deeper into his opinions of himself, with less integrity and less reason to do so.
A prudent man applies wisdom to the circumstances of his life. He hears criticism and repents. He withstands baseless arguments, holding his stance as a man of integrity, while as much as it depends on himself, keeping open the lines of communication. It looks like the insult is ignored; but the response is a combination of love and self-control. Let me explain.
When someone is a new believer in Jesus Christ, his ability to love others is expanded. In Jesus a believer’s sins are forgiven. The Father in heaven adopts him (or her) as a beloved child. Such love allows a man to hear insults and correction without immediately having to retaliate because he knows the height and width, breadth and length of God’s love being poured out on him and ever guarded in him by the Holy Spirit. Love bears all things (I Corinthians 13:7), insults, wrong-doing, and chirping, because one knows behind all of this is a deeper matter that needs to be reconciled.
Furthermore, a believer, who is a new creation in Christ, exercises the fruit of the Spirit. The fruit of the Spirit includes self-control. You can see how that is completely different from the fool whose prickly irritability is immediately known by all. The self-controlled person, the man or woman who is submitted to the Holy Spirit, will know the wrong he is enduring is wrong, but have confidence that the God of justice and mercy, will one day, do what is right and rectify even this hard circumstance. And everyone who sees God’s judgment at the end of all time and history will say: “What God has done is perfect and just! Blessed be His Name forever and ever. Amen.”
God of love and justice, mercy and truth, by the work of Your Spirit in me, cause me to grow and mature in Jesus Christ. Thank You for the constant lovingkindness and patient endurance You show to me for the sake of Christ, Your Son, my Redeemer. From the depths of that patient love, teach me to live with others exercising holy patience and kindness which is seasoned with self-control. Amen.
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