A public repentance
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As many of you know, sometime in June I posted a blog that caused some anguish to my readers, especially those from Mount Zion and the session there…though the church was not named. The leadership there as well as another colleague in ministry, strongly voiced their complaints. Since that time I have written a pained appeal to my Presbytery. What I have written to the members of the Presbytery needs to be covered by this post as well and I will send it out to them via the proper channels.
I have been called to repentance for posting the blog. I refused. More than once.
This morning, on the way to work, a podcast came up on my playlist. I have linked it here in case you’d like to listen or read the whole: https://www.ccef.org/in-defense-of-something-close-to-venting/ I highly recommend it). For now, I quote it in part here.
Though the Scriptures provide us with permission to participate in something close to venting, it also offers plenty of cautions related to the use of our words, especially in conversation with others. This caution reminds us to align our words with God’s kingdom purposes of building others up and encouraging their hearts and minds.
James 3 reminds us of the dangers of excessive words and the power of an untamed tongue.
Proverbs 10:19 cautions us that “When words are many, transgression is not lacking.”
Proverbs 13:3 encourages us to hedge the impulse to speak, as it highlights that “Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life; he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.”
And finally, Ephesians 4:29 admonishes us to “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”
The Scriptures permit and provide space for expression and honest sharing, at the same time as it fences and limits this permissive space regarding the contents of our speech and the nature of our words.
Todd Stryd, November 1, 2021
When you look at the date of Stryd’s post, you’ll see it is from about four years ago. It shouldn’t be on my playlist now; but there it was. Randomly, or better, by good providence, it popped into the playlist at just the moment the soil of my heart was softened enough to hear and receive. Though several men had appealed to me to remove the post (which I did) they also appealed to me to repent. Which I did not. Until now.
After listening to this podcast, from someone who, so to speak, doesn’t have an iron in the fire, I realized:
My words were untamed. I repent of that to all within reach of this blog.
My words were many, and I repent of that to all within reach of this blog
I did not stop the impulse to speak, when fairer words could have been used, or, more appropriately, better channels for these words. I repent of that.
I realize these words were harmful—while I intended to bring an important matter to light, it was not done in a way that was healing, helpful or promoting a solution. I heartily repent of that.
If you do not know what this refers to, all the better. Disregard my part of this blog, while at the same time taking the warning for the future to consider all your words and when you vent, be cautious how you vent.
Shalom. Richard
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